Not interested in men, nor in girls.. but became a mother, spent 6 lakhs, know how the child was born!

How important and pleasant an experience it is for a woman to become a mother can be understood from Bryony Farms, a resident of England. This is because her story is completely different from that of other women. Actually, Bryony is a woman who is neither interested in men nor in girls. She is one of those women who like to live alone. They have no interest in having a relationship with a man or a woman, that is, they do not like to have sexual intercourse. But she had to become a mother at any cost. He fulfilled his insistence in a unique way. But before that let us tell you the story of Bryony.

Bryony told that when she was moving towards adolescence, her friends used to put pictures of Hollywood superstars and popular male singers in their rooms and books. But he did not like all this. Gradually her friends started making boyfriends and going on dates, but Bryony did not like anyone. Bryony says that many people thought that maybe I was interested in women, but that was not the case either. I was asexual, who didn’t like doing things that other men and women did.

Before I could think about it in much detail, I was diagnosed with Lyme disease at the age of 15, which forced me to become housebound and homeschooled for the next few years. The last thing on my mind were boys. By the age of 19, I had recovered, but still had no interest in the opposite sex.

I wondered why I am not interested in boys because of illness and being away from school? I was not able to understand. I was also surprised. Wondered what if I could actually get sexually attracted to a guy just by looking at him? So, I entered the world of online dating. But after a few days I immediately realized that it was not for me. I just tried dating a guy who, after going on 5 dates, asked me very politely if he could kiss me? I didn’t want this, but still I had to say yes.

But it was like a terrible accident for me. It felt as if my personal space had been grossly invaded. I remember feeling physically ill while going home by train later. Was feeling shivering and nausea also. During that time I was just thinking what was wrong with me? Before this, whenever I went out with friends and they hugged me, I used to push them away. In the hope that they will realize that I already have someone in my life. But I never thought that just kissing would make me so restless and upset.

It was a difficult time. I felt alone and confused, wondering why it was that I felt strange when someone came close to me. Initially I thought there was something wrong with me. But later I realized that there were many more people like me in the United Kingdom. 28,000 people identified as asexual in the 2021 census, and there’s nothing wrong with being that way, which felt like a huge relief. This figure gave me clarity and peace of mind about who I am. However, as far as my getting pregnant was concerned, it was a problem.

But I wanted to become a mother. In such a situation, I started taking medical advice. Then the doctor advised me to get pregnant as soon as possible, because there were many problems in my body. At that time I was only 24 years old. In such a situation, I decided to have a child with the help of a sperm donor. I became pregnant and gave birth to my son, who turned 1 year old just last week. As I helped him blow out the candles on his first birthday cake, he smiled at me and I felt proud and happy.

This was immediately followed by the heart-wrenching thought, ‘What if I hadn’t tried harder and mustered up the courage to find you?’ It may be a strange thing to say to a young 26-year-old mother, but deciding to try for a child takes no bravery. Bryony said that for me, having a child meant taking a huge leap of faith. Since my teenage years I have lived with two seemingly contradictory certainties: one, that I wanted to be a mother somehow and the other, that I was asexual.

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